You think your private lessons are all you need? I am sorry to say just private lessons alone will not make you a successful social dancer very fast. What you learn and do in your private lessons and what you experience in group classes and practice parties are quite different. When you go to a group class or a party, you are dancing without your instructors personal help. Not to mention everybody dances differently; social dancers come in different heights, have different personality, style, speed, etc. Being able to dance with any person any style and still have fun is what social dancing is all about isn't it? You will learn real life dancing etiquette because fellow dance students will not be able to accommodate you like your teachers can. Other students are trying to figure out what they are doing just as hard as you are so you will be challenged to do your part at the best of your ability.
Think about why you started taking dance lessons to begin with. You wanted to feel comfortable at weddings and other social events, right? Well don't let those events be the first time you will ever dance in front of people. Make sure you practice in the controlled environment. Practice Parties are exactly that. Try out new moves. Bump into other couples. Get stuck in a spot. Forget everything you learned so do a basic move throughout the whole song. Who cares! People right next to you are experiencing the same challenges. Let those moments happen at the studio during group classes and parties.
Group classes and practice parties are a fantastic resource and we hope you try as many as you can!
For more information about group classes offered at your studio please talk to your instructors.
-Kimi Mabry (Fred Astaire Owner/Instructor Northbrook)